Welcome to the beautiful world of Sacred Sexuality. The knowledge and practices of Sacred Sexuality are part of a much larger body of knowledge developed over thousands of years by adepts in India and China. What these lovers-of-life discovered is that, contrary to religious/cultural stigmas, a healthy, fulfilling sex-life is essential for well-being, longevity, familial health, and spiritual development. The powerful techniques they developed are based on a profound understanding of anatomy/physiology, human psychology and observation of nature. Over the past ten years, Cain has had the opportunity to study Sacred Sexuality with gifted Tantric and Taoist teachers in India, Nepal, Thailand and the U.S.A. The secrets he has learned have had an amazing impact on his life and the lives of those he has worked with.
If you are interested in exploring deeper. . .
Cain offers workshops, teacher trainings, and private sessions for women, men and couples. Sessions are set in a light-hearted, comfortable environment, where you are never pushed or asked to do something you are not comfortable with. We share a down-to-earth, hands-on approach to learning, healing and growing. No two sessions are the same. Each session is designed to meet your specific needs and desires for growth. Phone consultations are also available.
Women
Learn sexual techniques for restoring your youthful glow, health and beauty. Learn powerful breathing techniques, massage, and meditations to move beyond limiting patterns. Learn to find healthy empowerment in your sexuality. Discover unimaginable pleasure and fulfillment that opens the door to deeper love for your self and intimacy with others.
Men
Learn to consciously control ejaculation, prolong arousal, and become multi-orgasmic. Yes, it's possible! Learn new ways to fully satisfy your lover. Learn to cultivate sexual energy for health, longevity and spiritual growth. Learn to deepen intimacy and expand your capacity to love by joining healthy sex with powerful meditative practices.
Couples
Learn powerful techniques to break limiting relational patterns and open the flow of love, intimacy and communication. Learn powerful ways of strengthening or regaining sexual polarity (attraction), and how to keep the passion and energy alive in your relationship. Learn the art of Giving and Receiving and how to relax into becoming a multi-orgasmic couple. Learn to cultivate your sexual relationship as a spiritual practice, how to practice dual-cultivation and sexual meditation.
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The Second Foundation: Self-Intimacy
When you trust your ability to observe yourself without judgment, you will naturally feel more intimate with your immediate experience. This makes it safe to be you--to have any variety of feelings, thoughts, or sensations and totally accept them all with open arms. Your partner will feel this and naturally open.
The Third Foundation: Pure Listening
Listening is the pure and simple act of acknowledging what is. In pure listening we are not obligated to agree with, or reject, what we hear. We just let what is be seen, heard and acknowledged. Be like a living mirror. That is all. No doing.
The Fourth Foundation: Sensitivity
Deepening you experience of sexuality is much less about learning new techniques, and much more about increasing sensitivity. With increased sensitivity, the slightest touch can bring waves of ecstatic pleasure. Heightening you sensitivity is part of every session of love play.
Get to Know Your PC muscle (Pubocoxigeal muscle)
Strengthening and sensitizing the musculature of the pelvic floor will do wonders for your health and your love-life.
The Fountain of Youth is in Your Mouth
Saliva is a major conductor of life energy and life-enhancing hormones. When you are aroused, or in a spiritual state (like during yoga or qigong), your body produces special chemicals that collect in your saliva. Enjoy and utilize this treasured secret.
Redefining the Big O
The conventional idea of orgasm is a sharp peak of explosive sexual energy that typically lasts a few seconds, followed by a steep decline into what most people think of as relaxation. This is a biological orgasm. It is one possibility in an infinite spectrum of orgasmic experience.
Moving from Orgasm to Orgasmic
An orgasm is a finite event. However, "orgasmic" is an infinite play of peaks and valleys that can last as long as you want. In orgasmic lovemaking, there is no goal, no result to be attained. Each moment's pleasure is it's own completion. Ahhh, no pressure, no performance anxiety, no agenda, no worries. Just enjoy your sensuality. This is one of the most under-valued secrets of tantric adepts.
Inner Sexual Alchemy: Connect the Heart and Pelvis
This unifies our sexual passion and power with our capacity to expand love and intimacy, and create what we want in our lives.
The Three Main Expressions of Sexual Freedom: Breath, Movement and Sound
These serve to amplify and circulate sexual energy throughout the body and between partners. Yes, you can transmit sexual energy to another person for healing, deepening connection or just pure enjoyment.
Cultivate the art of giving and the art of receiving. Each is an art form that must be practiced and explored. There is no end to this...just enjoy the journey.
Gateways to Intimacy
Intimacy has many levels. Essentially, intimacy is the feeling of truly connecting. Our intention is to expand our repertoire of ways to be intimate with Life.
- Conversation
- Breathing
- Eye Gazing
- Sounding
- Dancing
- Creating (music/art)
- Touching
- Cuddling
- Kissing
- Oral play
- Penetration (think beyond the conventional term)
- Your ideas....
The Art of "Small Batches"
Sometimes love comes in small batches that fit into small windows of time. Wonderful! Cultivate the skill of fitting intimacy and juicy-ness into those little moments that present themselves throughout your day.
There is no such thing as foreplay.
Each moment IS the play. A "full" session of love play may simply entail kissing and moving sexual energy through your body, then going back to work...with a grin and a glow.
Exploring further frontiers...
Keep cultivating your sensitivity. This cannot be over emphasized. With heightened sensitivity, and a feeling of deep connection, practice feeling "through" your partner into the greater field of Unity that contains us all. This is how two lovers can melt into Love itself. If you are alone, practice self-loving and melting into the spaciousness all around you as arousal increases.
Remember each moment is a love making...with Life!